I have a grown daughter, I was not mom material, and i did my best and my daughter survived and is a pretty decent woman..
I met a man i adore and he's got three kids... i had no clue as to what i was getting into.... his children are rude, mean and absolutely spoiled.
I mean, it's their parents fault.. i've only known them for about a year and when they are here, i walk around on eggshells, having on voice.. and OK.. that's fine.. I am not responsible for the little monsters.. i don't have to worry about them... and probably, they'll grow out of it, they are very smart..
But the middle girl.. 12 years old. She's an angry, scared little girl who weighs about 250 pounds and thinks that she's innocent.. s he's a middle child, her father walked out when she was 6.. her mother allows her to get away with things that my daughter would have been sent away for..
Here's today scenario.. She is sitting by the only lamp... her sister asks to sit there so she can do her home work.. she says NO.. I am comfortable.. i am NOT moving... ok.. her sister could go to the kitchen... but this is the principle.. she's yelling and saying that she's just this way, she will always get her way... i told her she could move and that would be a nice thing.. she refuses..
Then.. she calls me a bitch. Ok.. i am sure that i could be a bitch some times.. but not lately and certainly not to her.. and no 12 year old is going to call me a bitch... i mean come the fuck on.. who the hell allows there child to call another adult a bitch??????
So, the sister calls her mom.. I am the bad on..
fuck, fuck, fuck
thanks for listening... life will go on