so i have been dating a guy for two years now and absolutely hate his sis. Dont know if its jealousy or bad vibes, but dont like her around all the time. She works for his him, and is at the house every day...literally. There is tension around all of the time with her and me and him and my daughter. Shes in her early twenties and thinks she can tell me how to raise my child..she doesnt even have kids!! I am by nomeans perfect, but eww. And the two of them get together and build up on me against what"they both believe is right." And I feel like I am out numbered. Can I live with this insaneness for the rest of my life or should I just move on....I love my boyfriend, if I marry him, do I marry the family too. Of course I do. Too hard to work things out but dont want to be like this forever..why cant we just be happy alone. I am selfish I know, but weve tried working things out...and I still hate her. Cant make him choose, that would be evil on my part...besides blood is thicker than water......oh well